Merry Christmas Eve! This Dear Wendy column originally ran on Dec. 23, 2009.
Last Christmas, my boyfriend and I had been together just over a year. He promised me a cruise for a Christmas present last year (we decided on it AFTER Christmas), but he never bought the tickets. He said he was waiting because he thought we might break up—which we did, at the end of January. We got back together a few weeks later but he still never bought our cruise. I tried to drop it because it just made me mad every time I thought about all of the nice gifts I'd gotten him. So this year I'm wondering what will happen. How do I make sure that I don't get screwed again? I got him two nice gifts but I saved the receipts. If he doesn't get me anything should I take them back? Should I try to do something to ensure that he'll come through on a gift? Am I being completely shallow and stupid? I'm so torn because I love him but I think that crap he pulled last Christmas was really crummy and I don't want it to happen again but at the same time, I know I should not focus on getting a gift because that's shallow and materialistic. Should I say something to him about it?? What do you think? I need some serious advice on this one. — Shallow Sally
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